My wife found naked pictures of her friend on my phone and kicked me out but she doesn't realise I'm addicted to webcam sex

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my wife found pictures of her best friend naked on my phone she kicked me out.

We’re in our thirties and she’s given me so many chances.

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I’ve never cheated on my wife physically but I’m addicted to online porn and webcam sex.

I found the sexy pictures on my wife’s friend’s phone when she left it at our house, and I sent them to my phone. My wife found them and went ballistic. That was a month ago.

I want to tell her I’ve changed now. I’m not that man any more.

Everyone who knows her tells me to move on, I’m never getting her back, but I love her.

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DEIDRE SAYS: If all you have done about changing is feel sorry and made promises, your wife is perfectly entitled to doubt your sincerity. You are all too likely to relapse.

Follow the free Kick Start Recovery Progra-mme (sexaddictionhelp.co.uk) and find support to change through Sex Addicts Anonymous (saa-recovery.org.uk).

Update your wife on your progress without asking to get back together until you have clocked up several months without any form of online sex.

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